Check the Documentation again, if your question is just a "how do I?", then the answer is probably in there.
Beyond that, the best place to go for game play hints and spoilers is the Ambrosia Web Board. Go to http://www.AmbrosiaSW.com/news/webboard/ and then select one of the Coldstone discussion boards. If you register, and why not, it's free! you can post your question, where it will be read and soon answered, by other players and fans. You can also scroll through questions and answers already posted. The boards are also searchable, so if you're interested in something particular, you can look it up!